Your son’s body is about to change: his voice, his height, his moods, his world. The only question is who explains it to him first: you and a trusted professional, or the internet and the school playground?

Becoming is a 90-minute workshop where boys aged 9–12 learn what’s coming, why it happens, and how to handle it. The science of puberty, the daily hygiene habits, the big feelings and what to do with anger, respect for themselves and others, and how to stay safe. It’s taught by a male therapist, in a relaxed boys-only circle where no question is too embarrassing.

He leaves with answers, habits, and his own journal. You leave with a 15-minute private follow-up, a parent guide with the exact words to use at home, and a son who knows he can come to you.

At a Glance

Developed by Dr. Asmahan, licensed therapist and founder of Amana. Delivered by a male facilitator under her guidance.

What We Cover & What We Don’t

Your Son Will Learn

• Why puberty happens: the brain, hormones as “messengers”, and the order changes usually arrive in.
• The physical changes: growth spurts, voice change, skin, hair, sweat, and the hygiene routine that goes with them.
• The private changes explained plainly, briefly, and respectfully so nothing ever frightens or shames him.
• A short, respectful word about girls’ changes, so curiosity is answered and respect is built.
• Healthy eating, movement, and sleep for a growing body, and why online bodies aren’t real life.
• Feelings and anger: where they come from and tools that actually work for boys this age.
• Friendship, family values, and respect for elders.
• Body safety: private is private, no uncomfortable secrets, and exactly who to tell.

What We Deliberately Do NOT Cover

This is body awareness and preparation, not sex education. There is no adult content, no relationships content, and no detail beyond what a 9–12-year-old needs to feel prepared instead of surprised. Anything a boy asks that goes beyond this scope is parked respectfully for his parents. Parents may request the full session outline before the workshop.

Is My Son Ready?

Age alone doesn’t decide readiness. Here’s how to know if this is his time.

To Join, Your Son Should:

• Be between 9 and 12 years old.
• Know, in one simple sentence, what the workshop is about and be willing to come.
• Be able to spend 90 minutes in a small group without a parent in the room.

Signs the Timing Is Right

• He’s started asking questions about his body, his voice, or why friends are changing.
• You’ve noticed early changes like growth spurts, body odour, mood swings, or oilier skin.
• His friends are changing or he’s hearing half-true information at school or online.
• He’s started wanting more privacy.
• You simply want him prepared before the changes arrive.

When to Wait or Message Us First

• He’s under 9 or isn’t showing signs of curiosity yet.
• He’s currently going through a difficult life event or trauma.
• He refuses to attend. Don’t force it; wait for a later session.

Not sure? That’s exactly what our WhatsApp is for. Tell us his age and what made you consider the workshop, and we’ll tell you honestly whether now is the right time—even if the answer is “wait.”

Questions Parents Ask Before Signing Up

Who teaches it?

A male therapist/facilitator. The session runs in Arabic or English, whichever you choose at sign-up.

Will the content respect our family’s values?

Yes. It’s built for our families. Respect for parents and elders runs through the whole session. Body topics are explained calmly and briefly using family-friendly language, with no adult content of any kind.

What exactly will he be told about “private changes”?

That his body grows, that certain changes (like erections and wet dreams) are automatic, normal, and private, and what to practically do. Nothing more.

What if my son is shy?

He never has to speak. There’s an anonymous question box where boys can write questions without names.

Can I sit in?

No. Boys speak more freely when it’s just boys. Instead, every family receives a private 15-minute follow-up and a parent guide to continue the conversation at home.

Is what he says private?

What the boys share in the circle stays in the circle. The only exception is if there’s a concern about a child’s safety.

What about girls? Is there a version for my daughter?

Yes. Becoming also runs as a separate girls’ workshop (ages 9–12) with a female facilitator.